Plus various bug fixes from flight testing

And fixes they found

Maintain a list of address/port pairs instead of a address/port map.

Minor improvement to detection of stick recentering after calibration. Without this if you performed a calibration with deadband enabled but one of the deadbands at the end of the calibration was ~0 it would be very difficult to position the stick so that Qgroundcontrol considered the axis to be centered.

recentered after calibration.

Made it so that raw axis monitor indicators are narrow so that they don't obscure view of the deadzones.

* Command ack timeout back on normal/high latency link
* Correctly update ack timeout and high latency bit at correct times

When downloading mission items from the autopilot we need to retry more
agressively, so use a shorter timeout. If we don't do this, we might not
re-request a mission item in time and the autopilot has already given up
the overall mission transfer.

This fixes the case where a mission request from QGC to autopilot or a
mission item from autopilot to QGC gets lost on the link and needs to be
requested again.

* Flight modes still not implemented. Waiting on message change.
* Also includes various cauterization of UI things which should not be
available on high latency link.

By adding a member variable for the total mission item count, we can
actually correctly estimate the progress.