Centralize all connecting and disconnecting of links through
LinkManager::[Connect|Disconnect]Link api. Connect/Disconnect no longer
allowed through LinkInterface. This allows creation of new
LinkManager::setConnections[Suspended|Allowed] methods to disallow
connections as needed.

When unit tests are being run in TeamCity the host box can end up being
very bogged down with other builds. So need to up wait time, to take
into account CPUs grinding.